One way to resolve the apparent dilemma is to declare these studies flawed, suggesting they somehow fail to reflect people's underlying attitudes to privacy. But I can't accept that explanation. The empirical evidence of a strong "exhibitionist" streak in modern society is just too strong and you must account for it in an theory about privacy. Now I see that some people are making progress along these lines. Check out Douglas Rushkoff's perceptive piece in a recent issue of Discover magazine.
"It's as if we humans are not simply wiring up a communications infrastructure but creating a shared platform for self-awareness as a collective organism. And this goal--this almost instinctive push toward gaining access to one another--far outweighs our concern over how this data might be used."
This meshes quite nicely with my view of how humans are evolving. And it also jives with ideas I advanced in one of my first columns on privacy, back in 1994, which I will post here as soon as I can find the darned thing (Google probably has it somewhere).